Please DON’T push her to do anything she isn’t comfortable with!!! The old saying “if mommy’s not happy ain’t no one happy” is true. It will ruin your marriage if she isn’t interested for you to push it on her.
That being said there are ways to introduce new things into your relationship. First is simply share fantasies together as you are being sexual. Discuss her likes and dislikes. Watch movies (porn or hard R rated) that show the activities you want to share with her telling her how exciting they are to you when you put her into that starring role. Use toys in your sex play to simulate the activity such as a vibrator or dildo up her backside as you are in her vagina.
If she responds to these introductions into being more slutty maybe then you can move on by double dating with another like minded couple willing to move slowly or if she is willing share a few pics or videos of her nude or semi nude on the web. There are a lot of websites available to post such pics that only allow positive feedback. Maybe reading those positive comments will encourage her to step out.
During your double dating use alchohol to lower her defenses (Im not saying get her drunk) but after a few drinks she may be more willing to allow some light exchanges. The following are a few examples we used to introduce a newbie wife to the lifestyle:
One double date was a mini vacation with another couple for a weekend at the beach. I would flash my hubby (and of course this would include flashing the other couple) while in the pool or while on the beach. This encouraged the other wife to do the same (especially after she had a few drinks). This lead to total nudity in each other’s motel rooms and in a short time same room sex with our own partners until she finally was okay with a full switch.
My post here: //subaru25.ru/mega-rip/terry-webb-virgin-bride-to-slut-wife-history/ has a few examples of us introducing swinging to other couples as well as how I became the slut that I am.
I love using water to introduce skinny dipping or at least flashing to allow the other woman to become more open with sharing her body. A lot of times this can lead to nude sunbathing and being touched by another person while applying suntan oil. Maybe some light fingering or other sexual activities can be added as we are sunbathing.
The most extreme introduction to swinging we ever did with another couple I’ve never shared before but I will share it here for you and my readers. I am NOT suggesting you do this nor am I encouraging anyone to try it but in this cause it did work for one wife who was on the edge but just wasnt willing to cross that line into swinging. Once after a double date when the other wife had too much to drink, we went to their place where her hubby undressed her and put her to bed (my hubby and I stayed in another room). Then while she was sleeping in the next room the two guys had sex with me. After both guys had filled me with plenty of cum, the other husband carefully took my huge creampie into the next room where he rubbed it all over and inside of his wife’s vagina, on her breasts and around her lips and face, leaving her asleep but looking like she had done the deed. He also didn’t clean himself before laying down next to her to give the illusion of them falling asleep together after a big sexual evening. Hubby and I slept in the next room also still naked and without cleaning up. The next morning the other husband told his wife all about how much fun we all had (as if she had totally forgotten her role instead of having slept thru it). She could see the evidence covering her (all the dried cum) and was convinced she had already crossed that line. When we heard their door open hubby and I walked out into the room naked (me also covered with dried cum) asking for towels to shower saying how nice a time we had last night (never saying anything that was a lie as we did have fun). Because she couldnt remember the evening she was now open to “reliving it” so she could actually enjoy and remember it this time around. So without cleaning up we all enjoyed a wonderful morning of full swinging. She found she loved everything 2 couples could do together. They became great friends and to this day she doesnt know her first time was not the night before that she doesn’t remember but actually the morning she does remember.
So to recap: discuss your fantasies freely with your wife, share movies showing your fantasies, use toys to simulate your fantasies, move into double dates with a like minded couple willing to go slow the could include some level of nudity and flashing, maybe post her images publicly (with her permission), adultfriendfinder.com is a good place to meet like minded couples and to post images if she is willing. Of course don’t forget to post a few here on this site maybe here with your question if she is willing.
But again DON’T PUSH HER but allow her time to go as far as she is willing at her speed. Good luck. Oh one other thing once the genie is out of the bottle there is no going back. You both will need to be okay with her no longer being “pure”. No jealousy understanding sex is not love. As a slut I can enjoy sex but only love my husband. Yes I have come to love every type of sex possible but I only love my husband. We have seen too many relationships destroyed by swinging so be careful.